EP 53: Motorcycling to your Oasis
Wherever you are right now, whatever you’re doing, I encourage you to stop. Take in a deep breath, relax and listen. A quote from Ben Giese from Vahna Magazine.
I’ve been traveling a lot lately. Flying each week for work. Yeah it’s a pain sometimes, but I’m trying to make the most of it. I’m beginning to get used to it.
At the airport, I’m always hearing the announcement from gate agents, I’ll bet you’ve heard it too. Something like “For those with tickets for Flight 417, your plane is now boarding. Please proceed to the boarding area now as once the doors are closed, they will not reopen.” In other words, if you’ve missed your opportunity, well, you’ve missed it.
It reminds me of how we plan our motorcycle rides, plan our vacations, plan our retirement, …plan for doing something nice for someone else. Good intentions, but unless we really do what we plan to do, the opportunity is lost. That opportunity could be lost forever. We don’t know. And given that time never goes in reverse, that window of opportunity closes and it too, may never reopen.
Yeah, we call those “Windows of Opportunity”. We assume that there'll always be time for this or that. Until there is no time left. Whether it’s planning our next motorcycle journeys or sharing a coffee with an old friend, in today’s episode, let’s share some ideas for making every Window of Opportunity count. Thank you for joining me today!
I must admit, I’m enjoying any opportunity to talk with a stranger. I take Uber, a lot. Lost track of how many Uber rides I’ve taken to and from the airport. Many times, I’ve had the chance to learn a little bit about my drivers' life. Another reminder of how genuinely nice so many people are in this world. When I arrive at the airport terminal, if I have time and if it feels right, I will buy the coffee for whomever is behind me in line at the Starbucks line. It always brings a smile and usually a conversation.
At the airport, I’m always hearing the announcement from gate agents, I’ll bet you’ve heard it too. Something like “For those with tickets for Flight 417, your plane is now boarding. Please proceed to the boarding area now as once the doors are closed, they will not reopen.” In other words, if you’ve missed your opportunity, well, you’ve missed it.
It reminds me of how we plan our motorcycle rides, plan our vacations, plan our retirement, …plan for doing something nice for someone else. Good intentions, but unless we really do what we plan to do, the opportunity is lost. That opportunity could be lost forever. We don’t know. And given that time never goes in reverse, that window of opportunity closes and it too, may never reopen.
Yeah, we call those “Windows of Opportunity”. We assume that there'll always be time for this or that. Until there is no time left. Whether it’s planning our next motorcycle journeys or sharing a coffee with an old friend, in today’s episode, let’s share some ideas for making every Window of Opportunity count. Thank you for joining me today!
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Spring has finally arrived here on the front range of Colorado.
Expressing kindness to others is a powerful way to make a positive impact on the world. Here are some ways we can take every opportunity to do so:
- Start Your Day with a Smile:
Greet everyone you interact with, whether it's a barista at your favorite coffee shop or a stranger on the street, with a warm smile. A simple gesture can brighten their day. - Offer Genuine Compliments:
Compliment people on their appearance, work, or achievements. Make it specific and sincere to show that you genuinely appreciate them. - Be a Good Listener:
When someone is talking to you, give them your full attention. Listen actively, make eye contact, and show that you care about what they have to say. - Hold the Door Open:
Whether it's a stranger or someone you know, hold the door open for them as a courteous gesture. It's a small act that can make a big difference. - Help Others in Need:
If you see someone struggling with a task, offer your assistance. It could be helping an elderly person with their groceries or providing directions to a lost tourist. - Be Patient and Understanding:
Not everyone is going through the same things as you. Be patient with others, especially in stressful situations, and try to understand their perspective. - Give Back to Your Community:
Volunteer your time to a cause you care about or support local businesses. Getting involved in your community is a great way to make a positive impact. - Be Kind Online:
In the digital age, it's important to be kind online as well. Avoid spreading negativity and engage in respectful conversations. - Express Gratitude:
Express gratitude to those who make a difference in your life. It could be a thank-you note to your teachers, a heartfelt message to your family, or a simple "thank you" to the cashier at the grocery store. - Be a Role Model:
Children and young people often look up to adults in their lives. Be a role model by demonstrating kindness in your actions and words. - Random Acts of Kindness:
Surprise others with unexpected acts of kindness. It could be leaving a positive note for a stranger to find, paying for someone's coffee in line, or donating to a charity in someone's name. - Spread Kindness Through Social Media:
Use social media to share inspiring stories, positive messages, and resources that promote kindness. - Be Kind to Yourself:
It's important to extend kindness to yourself as well. Take care of your mental and physical health, practice self-compassion, and forgive yourself for mistakes. - Encourage Kindness in Others:
Encourage your friends, family, and colleagues to practice kindness. Talk about the importance of kindness, and share your experiences of receiving and giving kindness. - Create a Chain of Kindness:
Start a chain of kindness by asking others to pay forward the kindness they receive. It can be as simple as asking someone to hold the door open for the next person in line.
By taking every opportunity to express kindness to others, we can create a more compassionate and harmonious world.
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